I would like to express my most sincere thanks for your prayers, support, and generosity. The past seven years have been a true blessing as I continued to discern the Permanent Diaconate and went through spiritual, academic, and pastoral formation. But it was also daunting at times, balancing home, work, and formation. Your continued prayers and words of support have been instrumental in helping me and my family along the path towards my ordination. Please continue to pray for me and my family as we adjust to my new role at the parish, and be assured of my prayers for you all.
Prayer is central to our faith. In fact, it is essential to our faith life, because it is how we interact with God. It is how we can have a vital and personal relationship with the living and true God. St. Thérèse of Lisieux says: “For me, prayer is a surge of the heart; it is a simple look turned toward heaven, it is a cry of recognition and of love, embracing both trial and joy.”
Today’s readings highlight a very important aspect of this relationship. As Jesus points out in the prayer he teaches his disciples and in the subsequent discourse about persistence in prayer, there is a filial relationship underlying our prayers to God. We can truly call God our Father because we are his adopted children through baptism.
At first glance, that might not really be significant but it has a tremendous effect on our relationship with God and our prayer life. We might be inclined to think that our prayer is a way to present our needs and wants to God. Perhaps we look beyond that, and see it as a way to have a dialogue with our Lord. And that is not incorrect.
But it is important to realize that God is indeed Our Father – that we are his adopted sons and daughters through Christ’s death and resurrection. And Jesus tells us that our prayer life is therefore part of a child-father relationship rather than a servant-master relationship. This is why Jesus says: “What father […] would hand his son a snake when he asks for a fish?”
God is not merely our Father though – he is the perfect Father. We often do not see it that way, because we tend to regard God through the lens of our human imperfection. But it really should be the other way around. God is perfect, and earthly fatherhood is an imperfect reflection of that. To quote Jesus: “If [human fathers] know how to give good gifts to [their] children, how much more will the Father in heaven give the Holy Spirit to those who ask him?”
As we pray, let us remember that we are participating in a dialogue with our perfect Father in heaven, who initiated the dialogue and is patiently awaiting our response. Let us speak to him from the heart, sharing our joys and our sorrows, our blessings and our needs, and know that as a perfect Father, he hears us and will answer in the way that is best for us.